One thing that I have noticed after a miscarriage is that I look for ways to remember our lost babies. I don’t want to think of them as “the miscarriages” but as my children that I may not get to hold in this life, but they are still no less my children and need to be acknowledged as such. I have a memorial box with keepsakes to help that along but it doesn’t seem like enough somehow. I find myself more and more just saying miscarriage this and miscarriage that instead of Erin and Luke. I’m making a conscious effort to not feel silly calling them by the names that they were given.

Tonight I found this site with beautiful memorial jewelry and I am thrilled to have found it. The jewelry is subtle and tasteful and just what I want so that I can have a tangible reminder of the two children that I carry in my heart, not in my hands. Now, just to decide which one!